Friday, 08 May 2009

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  I’m going to consolidate my past events; hence this is going to be one long post.

   

  My little brother has done us proud once again. We attended his school’s Speech day filled with pride.

  

  He, the Commanding Officer for the parade, who took charge of all very well.

  He, the Head Councillor, who gave a powerful speech.

  He, the student, with the most stressful curriculum combination, who humbly received his award on stage.

  He, my little brother.

   

  In the month of April, I met up with quite a few people.

   

  

  Jessie and Shikin

  Truth is, we weren’t closed back in high school. In fact, we hardly converse or hang out at all. Kudos to FB! With a simple message, we found old friends. The day had me realised, even long lost friends aren’t forgotten.

   

  

  Jeremy and Lucille

  Met up with these 2 peeps. Not the very best combination, but at least the day was great. 5 cakes at TCC for 3! YUM! And Jeremy was so sweet! He bought both of us Sunflowers. He gave me a small bouquet as my birthday pressie, and this is the FIRST TIME he is doing so. Gotta buck up my friend. Ha!

   

  

  The crazy bunch

  We indulged ourselves at Indulgz. There are always laughter and lame-y jokes when we hang out. Oh, and juicy gossips tend to pop out randomly. Me likes!

  Side note: Louis and I were surprised to find our picture being ‘advertised’ for Indulgz’s couple’s dinner set. There’s one inside and outside of the restaurant.

   

  

  Jeraldine and Peter

  I doubt the men will ever understand how we can make online friends. Honestly, I don’t either. What I do know is, I found a new friend.

  Babe, we should go shopping soon! And we shan’t brood over the bridal’s issue again. The men can’t and will never be able to do anything about it. I bet they think we are some whinny wives! Ha!

   

  

  

  Louis and I decided to be tourists again. This time, we conquered the Duck Tour.

   

  

  My favourite girlfriends

  Despite the fact that I’m not a huge fan of Hello Kitty, I really appreciate their love and thoughts. The girls bought me an enormous helium kitty balloon, a beautiful bouquet of flower and the yummiest chocolate cake.

  I’m pampered.

  The night didn’t end with just a simple Japanese dinner. Second part of the night was THE MOST BEST gathering ever!

  So we headed to my place, where we occupied my mum’s mah-jong room. We had the usual playing of cards, a few rounds of mah-jong and then the real fun kicked in.

  When you’re high and closed to drunk, you’re bound to do the craziest thing ever.

  And that was what happened to our men.

  They stripped coz they lost to our forfeit! Darn, I should have taken a picture. Though they still had their mini underwear on, but imagine the girls were going bonkers when they came in with only towels and towards the end, just a piece of triangle across their things. Ha!

  The girls weren’t right that night. One of the guys actually commented that we lost our ‘image’. Like we totally care! Coz we were all out to have some hell fun, which of coz, we succeeded.

  Shite, I hope they don’t bring this up during our weddings.

   

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  Yesterday was supposed to be a day for celebration with a friend. However, almost a year ago, a trust was broken.

  There were times I wished to turn time back and perhaps amend any things if possible. There were moments I wished not to be too hard headed, yet when I tried to give in or do simple actions, I experienced another disappointment.

  Some told me this is worthless. Some told me to forget it.

  I think I should just move on.

  I had loved this friend.

   

   

  Edited

  I didn’t like the way things turned out to be.

  I didn’t want to clarify anything, yet, I feel I’m carrying an extremely heavy heart.

  If one truly has the heart to mend things up, one wouldn’t think of excuses to avoid facing the issues.

  If one was mad for a simple movie date, then how would that be comparable to a trust I once had from a company, till I introduced this friend to the company? Financial isn’t an issue to be not taken seriously for. Though the friend had told me it had been resolved, but the company’s trust for me had been broken.

  If one was upset with not receiving an invitation to attend my special occasion, then why would one still expects it, when the feeling this person has for me is still unresolved?

  Question is, would you even turn up?

  If one feels that I’m still holding grudges or being pissed, then why would I still bother to even send a birthday card or send my regards when this friend weren’t feeling well?

   

  This is so absurd and silly.

  I can’t believe I cried for this friend once again.

  ‘nuff said.

  My husband said something very sweet to me today, ‘I don’t need a best friend, a good friend, anybody or anything. As long as I have you, I can confide my all to you, that’s good enough. You’re my everything, and I truly mean it.’

   

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  I’m having a bit of weight issue here and I’m working on it. I still do not know the cause of it, could be my overindulging on dessert, but I do know is, I’m not pregnant.

  Thank you to those who showed concern. The next time we meet, please refrain me from desserts and let’s opt for healthy meals. We will try, at least a little bit. I have a wedding to hold really soon.

   

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  I REALLY NEED TO STOP SPENDING SO MUCH AND START SAVING.

   

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  I love qiuling07 very much. It has followed me through a few years now, with loads of happiness, sadness, bitching, ex-bfs, girlfriends, boyfriends, work, Perth, holidays, food, heartaches, agony, family, husband...

  Finally, I have decided, this shall be my very last post. I will put the rest of the entries under protected post for safe keeping and read it once in a while to reminisce good ol’ time.

  Who knows, I might set up another blog to outlet my thoughts once again.

   

  Till then, take care.

  ~ A man never knows when to say goodbye; a woman never knows when to say it – Helen Rowland ~

  Much love,

  Charlene

   

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